Faith is the binding force of love, for it encourages us to take a leap for someone and embrace their connection. Without faith in ourselves and others, we are lost in a morass of ambiguities that stifle our capacity to live full, loving lives. Faith also implies choice; in a sense, we are who we choose to love. In her choice to love me, my Grandmother changed my life, and in who I choose to love, I hope I can return the favor.
Read MoreAnxiety, Kierkegaard, and Me: Living and Thriving with Nervousness
Anxiety is a concept that is nearly universally experienced but almost universally misunderstood. It is not plain nervousness, like when you stop abruptly at a stop light or surprisingly run into an ex-partner or an in-law. For me and many others, it is a constant, pervasive dread that permeates our very existence. A couple of years ago I realized that my anxiety was beginning to affect nearly every aspect of my life, from work and relationships to even my ability to sleep at night. It was here that I began my own investigations into anxiety, reading and studying as much as I could on the subject. From learning about Buddhism to Psychoanalysis and everything in between, I really didn’t crack the “anxiety code” until I discovered a nineteenth century philosopher who wrote a pioneering book on the subject in 1844.
Read MoreEssentialism and Humanism: Decluttering Your Life and Finding Your Purpose
I’ve learned about a philosophy of life that has completely reshaped my thinking about what it means to live well. It’s a lifestyle focused less on the amount of things, tasks, and relationships we accrue and more on the quality and intentionality of things, tasks, and relationships we bring into our lives. In short, it’s about finding what is essential for you to be the best version of yourself that you can be.
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